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You’ve Started Wondering If The Problem Is You.
Let me tell you what it actually is.

It isn’t your age. It isn’t your body. It isn’t that you’re too much or too late.
But it also isn’t nothing.
Somewhere along the way you stopped believing you were allowed to have exactly what you want. And a woman who doesn’t believe that never sets a filter. She takes what shows up, gives more than he’s earned, feels something isn’t right, and keeps going anyway.
That isn’t a flaw in you. It’s a belief that got installed. And it’s the first thing we take apart.

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Helping accomplished women find lasting love
Christine's Story

I Met My Husband in 90 Days Using This Exact System

I wasn't lucky. I wasn't younger. I wasn't doing anything magical.

I had been single for 25 years. I had been on over 1,000 dates. I had done the inner work, built a successful career, and still couldn't figure out why love wasn't working for me.

When I finally stopped leaving dating to chance and built a real system around it — everything changed. I met my husband within 90 days. I was 40 years old.

That system is exactly what AEL teaches. And if it worked for me after 25 years — it will work for you.

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Watch This First — Christine Explains The One Shift That Changes Everything

Christine shares exactly what's been holding you back — and what changes the moment you have the right system.

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"She wasn't broken. She was just dating without a strategy. That's the only thing that changed."
— Christine Pate, Find Your Husband Coach®
"I kept doing everything right and getting the same results."
Sound familiar?

You've Done Everything They Told You To Do. So Why Is This Still So Hard?

  • You’ve felt something wasn’t right about him, and pushed past it anyway
  • You gave everything before he’d earned any of it
  • You’re waiting for him to decide what the two of you are
  • You’ve quietly wondered whether you’re meant to be alone
  • You keep choosing the same kind of man and you don’t know why
  • You’re not desperate and you’re not broken. You’ve just never been given permission and a plan
The strategy matters. But it only works once you believe you’re allowed to use it. That’s why this program starts where it does.
Who This Is For

This Program Was Made For You If...

Read every line carefully. This is written specifically for you.

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You’ve built a good life and you’ve invested in yourself before, so you know what it costs to change something real

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You take responsibility for your outcomes, in every area except this one, which has never made sense to you

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You’ve tried apps, setups, and putting yourself out there, and you’re exhausted by the randomness

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You keep attracting men who want your company but not your commitment

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You’re past casual dating and you want to be someone’s partner, not someone’s option

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You’ll actually do the work if someone gives you the plan

Not for you if:

You want to be told it’s all the men’s fault · You want to keep waiting for it to happen on its own · You’re not ready to invest in the one area of your life you’ve never been successful in

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Your Guide

Christine Pate Didn't Just Study This — She Lived It

I spent years in the same cycle you might recognize — dating the wrong men, wondering what was missing, questioning my worth. Then I made a decision that changed everything: I built a system.

Using what would become the Strict 7™ strategy, I applied my own framework with discipline and intention — and met my husband in 90 days. I had my son at 42.

Since then, I've spent 15+ years coaching women through this exact transformation. With over 1,000 personal dates of experience informing the methodology and hundreds of women coached through this exact path, the AEL Program isn't theory. It's a proven, repeatable system built by someone who has been exactly where you are.

25
Years Single
40
Age She Found Him
90
Days Using the System
50K+
Women Reached
The Core Strategy
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The Strict 7™ — The Framework Behind Every Success Story

Most dating advice tells you to be more of something — more available, more mysterious, more patient. The Strict 7™ is different. It's a structured framework that tells you exactly what to do at every stage of early dating so you never wonder where you stand, never over-invest in the wrong man, and naturally become the woman a commitment-ready man chooses — without performing, chasing, or compromising who you are.

What it eliminates for good

Over-attachment & chasing
Confusion & mixed signals
Wasted months on the wrong man
Situationships that go nowhere
Anxious early-stage spiraling
Settling out of fear
01

Date Up to 3 Men at Once

With zero intimacy and full integrity. This protects your heart and shows you clearly who is actually ready to step up.

02

Clear Standards & Non-Negotiables

Know exactly what you want and what you will not accept — before emotions cloud your judgment.

03

Observe Behavior, Don't Chase

Let men show you who they are through consistent action — not promises, potential, or words.

04

Stay in Feminine Energy

Respond from a grounded, magnetic place instead of reacting from fear, anxiety, or scarcity.

05

Choose Based on Alignment

Select your partner from a clear, empowered position — not loneliness, pressure, or compromise.

06

No Intimacy Before Commitment

Protect your energy and discernment. This boundary alone changes the quality of man you attract.

07

Receive and Allow Love

Stop self-sabotaging when things go well. Let a good man love you without pushing him away or testing him out of fear.

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Why AEL Works When Others Haven't

Not Just a Course. A Guided Transformation System.

Not just mindset

Strategy + Execution

You get the inner healing work AND the concrete dating strategy — together, not separately.

Not just advice

A Structured System

A sequenced system, so you always know exactly what to do next.

Not just learning

Real-Life Application

11 Stretch Weeks guide you through actually doing the work — where transformation happens.

Not one-time

Ongoing Evolution

Lifetime access and all new trainings added automatically — your investment grows forever.

Inside the Program

What Actually Changes, Phase by Phase

PHASE ONE · MODULES 1 TO 12

You stop being the woman who accepts less than she wants

Right now something in you doesn’t fully believe you’re allowed to have it. That belief is quiet, and it decides everything. Who you accept. What you tolerate. How long you stay.

  • Understand where that belief came from, so it stops running your dating life
  • Rebuild your worth to the point where low standards feel physically wrong
  • Set boundaries that actually hold, instead of ones you talk yourself out of
  • Walk into a room knowing you’re the catch, not hoping he thinks so
  • Stop reacting to men and start responding from solid ground

By the end of Phase 1, you stop settling. Not because you’re trying harder. Because you finally believe you don’t have to.

PHASE TWO · MODULES 13 TO 24

You stop guessing and start choosing

You’ve never had a system. So you’ve been reading signals, hoping, and finding out in month four what you could have known in week two.

  • The complete Strict 7™ Dating Strategy, exactly what to do at every stage
  • A dating profile that stops high quality men, so the right ones actually find you
  • Know what men genuinely respond to, and what quietly turns them away
  • Flirt with confidence, in person and online, without it feeling forced
  • Know where the marriage-minded men actually are
  • Spot the emotionally unavailable ones before they cost you a year

By the end of Phase 2, you know within weeks whether he’s the one to keep. You stop wasting time on men who were never going to make it.

PHASE THREE · MODULES 25 TO 36

You keep him, and you don’t lose yourself doing it

This is the phase nobody teaches. Plenty of women find a good man. Fewer know how to build something with him that lasts.

  • Create the Couple Bubble, the thing that makes a relationship feel safe
  • Understand how he loves, and how to be loved the way you need
  • Know what he actually wants, and whether you’re truly aligned
  • Honor him without shrinking, and stay fully yourself inside the relationship
  • Receive love without testing it or pushing it away

By the end of Phase 3, you’re not just in a relationship. You’re in the one you always wanted, and you know how to keep it that way.

Inner Circle and Elite members also get a professional review of their online dating profile. Most women are invisible online for reasons they can’t see themselves. Christine and her team rework your profile with you, so you stop wasting months on apps and start being seen by the men who actually match what you want.

The Secret Ingredient

11 Interactive Stretch Weeks

Most women stay stuck because they learn but never apply. The Stretch Weeks guide you through real-life execution — week by week, with structure.

  • Apply the Strict 7™ in real dating situations
  • Practice new boundaries and communication in live conversations
  • Shift your behavior week by week with accountability
  • Build real confidence through doing, not just consuming
  • Never wonder "what do I do next?"
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The Transformation

From Exhausted & Overlooked — To Confident, Chosen & Planning Your Future

Before AEL
After AEL
You replay every text, every date, every interaction — analyzing what you said wrong, what you did too much of, why he pulled away
You move through dating with calm clarity. You know exactly what to do, when to do it, and why — and it works
Men are excited about you at first, then slowly fade. You're starting to wonder if there's something fundamentally wrong with you
You understand exactly why this was happening — and you've stopped it completely. The right men stay
You've given everything to men who gave you almost nothing in return. You over-invested, over-explained, over-extended — and still ended up alone
You pace every relationship with confidence. He invests first. He pursues. You never wonder where you stand
You’ve watched other women get chosen and quietly wondered what they have that you don’t
You finally understand what was getting in your way. And you've removed it. Now you're the one being chosen
Sunday nights feel heavy. The silence is loud. You wonder how much longer you can keep doing this
Sunday nights feel different now. Because you're either building something real — or you know exactly how close you are
You've done the therapy, the apps, the self-help, the "working on yourself." You're ready. And you're exhausted by the waiting
You stopped waiting. You followed a system built specifically for women like you — and your life looks completely different now
You’ve never quite let yourself believe you could have exactly what you want
You believe it now. Not as a mantra, but because you’ve watched it start working.
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Real Women. Real Results.

They Were Exactly Where You Are Now

Accomplished women, tired of waiting — who said yes to themselves and changed everything.

Jen — married her man
Zitalli — married in Hawaii
Married — Before the Program Ended

My standards were so low I was dating men simply because they were male. After 6 months in this program, I learned to weed out the wrong men and found someone who met every Strict 7 criteria. We got married in November 2020, before the program even ended. Now I truly understand what love built on mutual respect feels like.

Leah
Leah
Met & married within the program
Engaged — Said Yes!

As a middle-aged woman, I thought I should've already known how to create a healthy relationship — but I didn't. I kept choosing the wrong men and ending up heartbroken. Joining AEL changed everything. I finally saw how my family dynamics shaped my patterns, and the Strict 7 gave me structure, confidence, and clarity. After Christine's retreat, I released emotional blocks I didn't even know I had. Just a few months later, I met my Honeylove. We're now planning a beautiful future together in Europe.

Jeanette
Jeanette
Met her Honeylove — building a future in Europe
Married — First Kiss as Husband & Wife

I never believed it would happen for me. Christine's program completely rewired how I thought about love, men, and my own worth. The Strict 7 strategy changed how I dated forever. The right man found me — and I said yes.

Miranda
Miranda
Married — living her love story
Engaged — She Said Yes!

I joined the program feeling completely stuck and heartbroken. Christine's system gave me the clarity and confidence I had been missing. I stopped chasing and started choosing. Within months, I was proposed to by a man who cherishes me. This program works.

Rochelle
Rochelle
Engaged — chosen by the right man
Engaged — Said Yes!

Christine's program taught me how to stop settling and start believing I deserved real love. The Strict 7 strategy was a game changer. I finally understood what a high-value relationship looked like — and then I found it. The proposal was everything.

Clara
Clara
Engaged to an amazing man
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"I finally saw how my family dynamics shaped my patterns — and I learned the Strict 7 Dating Strategy, which gave me structure, confidence, and clarity."

— Jeanette, AEL Graduate · Now planning her future in Europe

"Most women stay stuck because they learn but don't apply. We guide them through real-life execution — that's the difference."
— The AEL Difference

"We got married before the program even ended. Now I truly understand what love built on mutual respect feels like."

— Leah, AEL Graduate · Married within 6 months

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Three Ways to Start. Same Program. Different Levels of Support.

A year from now you’ll either be with him, or you’ll be exactly here, telling the same story with one more man in it.

Nothing about your situation changes on its own. Not next month, not next year.

Every tier gives you the complete Attract Extraordinary Love program. What changes is how much support you have while you actually do it. Payment plans start at $166 a month.

MOST AFFORDABLE
The AEL Program
$497
Or 3 payments of $166
For the woman who learns fast, follows through, and just needs the map.
  • All 36 modules across all three phases
  • The complete Strict 7™ Dating Strategy
  • 11 Stretch Weeks so you apply it in real life, not just learn it
  • Lifetime access
  • Every new training added automatically
Pay in Full, $497 3 Payments of $166
BEST VALUE
AEL Inner Circle
$1,200
Or 3 payments of $430
For the woman who has bought programs before and not finished them. Be honest about whether that’s you.
  • Everything in the AEL Program
  • Two live coaching calls every month, ongoing. One with Christine and one with Adina, her master coach. You bring your actual situation, not a hypothetical. The text he sent. The date that felt off. The decision you’re stuck on.
  • The private community, where you can post anything, any time. So at 11pm when you’re about to send a text you shouldn’t, there’s somewhere to go that isn’t your own head. Christine and her team are in there with you.
  • A full audit of your online dating profile. Most women are invisible online for reasons they cannot see themselves, and it has almost nothing to do with how they look. Christine and her team rebuild your photos, your bio and your positioning so the high quality men you actually want start finding you. Of everything in this tier, this is the change women feel fastest.
  • A full year of accountability. This is the difference between knowing the strategy and actually living it.
Pay in Full, $1,200 3 Payments of $430

Includes a full year in the Inner Circle. After your first year, membership continues at $97 a month, and you can cancel any time.

HIGHEST SUPPORT
AEL Elite
$1,500
Or 3 payments of $530
For the woman who is done trying to figure this out and wants it handled.
  • Everything in the Inner Circle
  • Three private coaching calls with one of Christine’s certified dating coaches. These are women trained personally by Christine in the Strict 7™ method, who have walked hundreds of women through this exact process. Just you, your history, your patterns, and the man you’re currently unsure about.
  • BONUS: One private call with Christine, included for a limited time. She only takes a small number of these each month, so this comes off when her calendar fills.
  • Only $300 more than Inner Circle. Which is why most women choose this one.
Pay in Full, $1,500 3 Payments of $530

Includes a full year in the Inner Circle as part of Elite. After your first year, membership continues at $97 a month, and you can cancel any time.

Payment plans on every tier. Secure checkout. Instant access. 7-Day Action Guarantee.

Not sure which one? Most women who have started something and not finished it choose the Inner Circle. Most women who want personal eyes on their situation choose Elite.

“My standards were so low I was dating men simply because they were male. After 6 months in this program, I learned to weed out the wrong men and found someone who met every Strict 7 criteria. We got married before the program even ended.”
Leah, AEL Inner Circle Graduate
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Your Love Life Is Worth the Risk — Ours, Not Yours.

I stand behind this work, and I also believe transformation requires action. So here is how it works. Complete the first module and its exercises. If you do that and genuinely decide this isn’t right for you, request a refund within 7 days of purchase and you’ll get it. All I ask is that you actually start.

Questions Answered

Everything You're Wondering

How fast will I see results?
Most women report a meaningful mindset and energy shift within the first 2–3 weeks. Many are in new, promising relationships within 90 days. Your results will reflect your consistency and action — but the system removes all guesswork so you always know exactly what to do next.
Is this for women at any age?
AEL has women from their early 30s through their late 60s actively in the program. The system doesn't depend on age — it depends on clarity of intention. Many women in their 40s and 50s report that AEL was the first dating framework that actually respected their maturity and life experience.
What if I'm divorced or have children?
This program was designed with your reality in mind. Divorce doesn't reset your value — and children aren't a liability. The Strict 7™ framework includes specific guidance on introducing your full life authentically while still creating the conditions for a committed man to choose you.
Do I need to be fully healed before I start?
No — and here's why that question keeps women waiting indefinitely: healing and dating are not sequential. You don't need to be perfect; you need to be intentional. AEL meets you where you are and builds the mindset alongside the strategy.
How is this different from other programs I've tried?
Most programs sell mindset content — journaling, visualization, knowing your worth. AEL gives you that AND a concrete, sequenced strategy for what to actually do in your dating life every week. The women who've tried other programs consistently say the difference is the system: you never wonder what to do next.
When do I get access?
Immediately. The moment you complete checkout, you have full access to all 36 modules and the entire program. You can start today.
What is the $97 a month after the first year?
Inner Circle and Elite both include a full year of live coaching and community. After that year, if you want to stay in the room, membership continues at $97 a month. You can cancel any time and nothing happens automatically without you knowing about it. Many women stay because the community becomes the place they process their whole dating life.
What if I’m not dating anyone right now?
That’s where most women start, and honestly it’s the easiest place to begin. You get to build the foundation before there’s a man in the picture influencing your decisions. By the time you’re dating again, you’ll already know what you’re looking for and how to spot it.

The Woman Who Meets Him This Year Won't Look Back and Wish She'd Waited Longer.

Over 50,000 women have downloaded the Strict 7™ Strategy. Most will never apply it. The ones who step into coaching are the ones who take hold of their love life and get their happily ever after. Which one will you be?

Three ways to start, with payment plans available on all of them.

The women who are in love a year from now aren’t luckier than you. They just started.

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